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Who's on your Board of Directors?

June 22,2017

In our gospel lesson for Sunday June 18th Jesus calls his disciples together and gives them their tasks. Two by two they are to go out and heal the sick, proclaim the good news, and to do it all without payment! They are to rely on the kindness of strangers. We can see Jesus as the CEO and the disciples as his Board of Directors. They are the ones who will follow the mission and vision Jesus sets before them.

If you notice Matthew lists who are the twelve Jesus has called upon. From experience we know if names are listed it must mean something. A closer read of the names shows that these twelve are not necessarily the best and the brightest. We have Judas who will betray him. Peter who will abandon him. James and John jockey for position in heaven. Simon the Cananaean was a zealot for the Jews so he would have been at odds with Matthew the tax collector an agent of the Roman government. It is a rather disparate group.

But out of this group Jesus finds something worthwhile in each of them. There is a reason they are on his Board of Directors. One of the reasons is he may have wanted to keep his friends close and his enemies closer. Or perhaps it is each one of them in his own way has a talent Jesus wishes to exploit. Finally, maybe they were all he could find who were willing to give up all and follow him.

Whatever the reason this group of men Jesus sent out to further the Kingdom of God. Which brings me to my question: Who's on your Board of Directors? Is it only those who agree with you? Is it only those you like? What Jesus demonstrates to us in this story is being able to lay aside personal grievances is going to lead us to furthering his mission here. Jesus doesn't ask us to like one another. He asks us to love one another. Liking is a different level of engagement than loving. Loving allows you to see the person has something to offer which will help you do what God has given you to do. So I ask, Who's on your Board of Directors?


June 07,2017

As I was away last Sunday I did not have the opportunity to preach but did attend two, yes two church services, over the weekend. Both focused on, rightly so, the Holy Spirit. Who is the Holy Spirit? What does this mean for us in our lives of faith? If you recall Jesus tells the disciples that he is sending them an Advocate which will be with them. This Advocate is the Holy Spirit. I have always believed the Holy Spirit is the guiding force to good. 

The Holy Spirit is the one who is going to help us discern what God is calling us to in our lives. This can be in our individual or corporate lives. When a person is excited about being alive and seeing all the possibilities in the world, that is someone who is guided by the Holy Spirit. The same can be said for churches, a lively church we say is filled with the Spirit. But perhaps you have been in a church for worship that just feels dead. Dead to one another. Dead to the world. Dead to the Church. Worship feels lifeless; singing is non-existent and the preaching is boring. Sorry that is how I see it. This is a church that needs to re-commit to the one another, God and the world. What they need is a spring cleaning of their hearts and minds. It is my belief that buildings have auras and when a building has a bad aura, people do not want to enter. Those who do venture in, usually don't stay. They feel the energy is stagnant. This is a church that needs the Holy Spirit to move over them and invite them to a new life in Christ. 

Fortunately this is not the case at St. Thomas. We do not allow the Spirit to stay stagnant. We are alive in Christ Jesus, faithful to his Word.

In the World

June 01,2017

In the 1960’s situation comedy Dick Van Dyke and Mary Tyler Moore play Rob and Laura Petrie. Rob is the head writer of The Alan Brady Show which is a weekly variety show. In an episode Rob and Laura are invited to a very exclusive cocktail party of the best and brightest in literature, music and art. They feel hopelessly out of place and their interactions with other guests only affirm their isolation. One guest asked Rob what he did for a living and when he told her she said in a rather sniffy voice, “I don’t own a television machine.”

In our readings today from I Peter and John there is foreboding in the what both are saying. Peter writes about the fiery ordeal that is taking place and Jesus says he is leaving the world but his disciples will remain in the world and the Holy Spirit should protect them after he has returned to the Father. Obviously something is happening in the world to cause both men at different times to utter very similar statements.

In the world. This week in particular I have wished I did not own a television machine. We had the horrific bombing in Manchester whereby the Queen summed it up best by saying it was wicked. It was truly wicked. We have violence in our own country where a reporter is attacked and thrown down to the ground his glasses broken and people call him names. Everything on the news is “breaking news” so we are on a constant state of alert. You may say, Well, Diane, turn off the television. I could but I am worried then it will be the end of the world and I won’t know about it until it is too late.

It is hard to want to remain in the world. It is frightening to remain in the world. Frightening because we do not tolerate difference very well as a society. We want everyone to think like us and those who don’t have something wrong with them. Over and over we are given mixed messages, on the one hand we hear-be yourself and on the other hand we hear be like us and believe like us. It is difficult to know which way to turn.

It is our human condition to never let anyone see us at our weakest. Speak up for yourself. Tell the world they are wrong. And what happens when this is the message people hear all the time? They take upon themselves to right a perceived wrong. They bomb concerts because women and girls should not listen to that kind of music and dress that way. People should not have the freedom to enjoy life. They hit people because they don’t like their questions and they drive down the sidewalk running people over because they want to.

All of these people feel powerless. They are in the world and the world just does not get it. Their world is one in which the strong overpower the weak. Take advantage of the vulnerable and hurt innocents. There was a man who stood silent before his accusers. He refused to answer their questions. He was strong confident in himself and that annoyed the men. They took him away and blindfolded him. Others in the room began taunting him and hitting him. Still the man remained silent, letting the others laugh at him. He was executed the next day. He had not done anything wrong. He was a gentle soul who dared to be different and thought people could live a different way. I would follow this man to the ends of the earth, and I dare say you all would as well. He demonstrated through his life and living like him, we would have the kingdom of heaven on earth.

I believe if we all truly followed him it would be so. It is not an easy way to live. It means watching out for as I Peter says “the roaring lion your adversary the devil who prowls around, looking for someone to devour. Resist him, steadfast in your faith.” The roaring lion is the one who tells us differences are not tolerated. We must all live in accordance to the belief of a group and the weak and the vulnerable are to be objects of ridicule. That is what will make us strong says the devil-watching the weak fall and stumble and then laughing at them.

But we know as people who live in the world that is not the case. It is not the mocking and the ridicule-it is the extending of a hand even when it is your hand that has been bitten. Lizzie Velasquez is one such person. A young woman who has a rare genetic disorder which makes it impossible for her to gain weight. She is blind in one eye and has limited sight in the other. Lizzie rose to fame when she found a youtube video titled “The world’s ugliest woman” only to see herself on the screen. She now speaks out about bullying and shares her story about being bullied all her life for how she looks.

Lizzie could have chosen to not be in the world become a recluse, blamed everyone including God for her disorder but instead, she has chosen to become a bright light on this earth. Her smile is engaging and her love of life infectious. It gives us hope that one day we will see past the physical attributes of a person because as God said to Samuel as he was choosing skinny David people look on the physical appearance, but I look on the heart.

I thank God everyday for people like Lizzie Velasquez as they remind me to look on the heart. It also reminds me there is much good to be had when we live in the world. If each of us withdrew from the world because we don’t want to hear about the bad news or be reminded how we think things have gone off the rails the world would be worse than it already is. God needs people like us to stay in the world. God needs people like us to work for his kingdom on earth. God needs people like us to stand with the man who spit upon and mocked as he went to the cross for us.

As appealing as it is somedays we can’t leave the world-God needs us in it.


Name: Arrenda K. Tarkington-Moore
Comment: These are lovely stories! I will recommend "The Boys in the Boat" to a dear friend that I know has a similar deep-rooted relationship with his father and this too may help him progress and overcome. Thank you and keep the posts coming!
Name: James R. Horton
Comment: Diane, Great read on Oct. 3rd.
Name: Bill
Comment: Thank you
Name: Patti Trainor
Comment: Thank you for the reminders to focus on family and not on the material.
Name: Debra
Comment: Full of salient points. Don't stop beleviing or writing!
Name: Kelly Mitchell
Comment: Hi Diane, I met you a few years ago before I started my MDiv at Duke. I wanted to know if i could be of help with the lay ministries o chalice bearing and reading. which I have been doing for quite some time now at my home church in Raleigh. If at all possible, I would love to come to Washington or Bath and have some coffee with you to discuss where I am and where I would like to be and listen to your wisdom. my number is 919 592 4770. Many thanks.
Name: WilliamAlep
Comment: Say, you got a nice article.Thanks Again. Really Great. Camilo

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